This site - divorce advice for men is for guys by guys. If you have found this website then it is because you are potentially contemplating, worried your spouse is considering or in the process of going through one of the most challenging issues many of us men face - DIVORCE!
Divorce, plain and simple sucks! Yes, I said it sucks. We're going to start this conversation and throughout we'll spill emotions of anger, frustration, happiness, sadness, peace, chaos and so much more. We welcome you to the site so let's get this ball rolling...
Ok, so you are a man and don't need advice because you know it all right or don't need to share your feelings - blah blah blah?
Trust me I am the same way. However, you can bet your spouse is getting woman's divorce advice (and we'll sprinkle that in throughout the site) and it actually makes you more of a man to get assistance throughout the process.
No matter your situation, you are going to ride one heck of a roller coaster so gaining insight, knowing you aren't alone, and getting advice on each and every aspect is why we created divorce advice for men.
Within these pages will be not only tips and strategies, but a conversation between us Men. Here, we will curse, scream, get pissed, cry and realize that even though we are men, we are human beings and this shit hurts!!
Let me tell you a story to help you understand & perhaps relate to...
I will never forget the day my wife at the time came to me and told me she was unhappy and if things didn't change quickly she was considering leaving me. WTF????
I will also never forget the all of the decisions that were made from that moment on that led to the day she left all the way up to the day we went to the courthouse which was two days before Christmas. It was a year long process and the perfect ending to a messed up year.
You can read the whole story at our about men and divorce page if you would like. Bottom line, the whole thing made me feel like a freaking failure as a man. Therefore, if you are reading this and not divorced yet...
Now it may be very early on in the process, haven't even brought up this thought to your spouse, or are worried your spouse may consider leaving you.
Well the good news is there still may be a chance to salvage the marriage if acted upon correctly and as soon as possible. I have heard stories of marriages being saved even at the courthouse the day of dissolution/divorce.
If there is no chance in hell and the marriage is over, then we'll discuss throughout the pages of divorce advice for men what you are about to go through or are currently going through and how you can get help along the way.
We will do this for each step of the way, for each part of the process, and from everyone's perspective.
You don't know me from Adam. I may be some Kook who is just reprinting material from a book. That is furthest from the truth and here's why...
First, I am the product of divorce. I was the oldest of 2 boys and during some very important developmental years of my life, my parents decided to call it quits. We were uprooted and life as we knew it became different.
What I didn't realize was how being a child of divorce affected me until I went through my own.
Fast forward 20 years later...
As noted in the story above, my wife and I called it quits. Everything turned upside down immediately and this created a whirlwind of an adventure that neither of us could get a grasp on.
Now, I must say that either divorce I'd been through was ugly by any means. They had their rough moments, but I did embark on this journey with many friends who had to endure ugly splits which just made the roller coaster ride a little scarier and tougher to get through.
More of the stories will be shared throughout divorce advice for me. This website was developed from experiences of divorce and from many people having to go through it. I will admit firsthand that after many horrible things in life happening to myself, this was one of the hardest things I had to go through.
The good news is that I came out on the other side stronger, more alive, and wiser. The bad news is that I basically had to start over from scratch or in a hole depending on how you look at it after losing virtually everything.
With that said...
Let's break down the reasons you may be at divorce advice for men and just how we can work together to ensure that if divorce is the only option we help you through all aspects...
Divorce advice for men takes you through the journey. Life is a journey and this is certainly a subset of that if you are having to go through it. Whether you are the one requesting the divorce or vice versa.
The process is a roller coaster ride and will touch on every aspect of life that you shared with your spouse for the years you were married. Some marriage splits are simple, cordial, and easy to manage where a dissolution may provide the better route.
Some marriage splits are more complicated, ugly and create instances where attorneys are required, full out divorce is necessary, and the process is a bit more complicated.
Either way there are steps that you must go through and we're going to help you along the way.
No matter where you are in your divorce or even your life, now is the time to get the divorce support and help you need. On the left of divorce advice for men you will find the topics broken down into categories.
Start there, find where you are, and let's see if we can assist you in going through divorce in the best manner possible.
Gentlemen, put your big boy pants on and let's get this shit figured out ASAP!!
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